From the way that the media depicts divorce, you might imagine that the average person makes a snap decision one day and marches off to file for the end of their marriage. While some people certainly do reach a breaking point from which there is no return, it is also...
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What should Californians know about no-fault divorce?
Divorce used to be an uncommon practice, which meant that the few people who did seek divorces often did so because of extreme circumstances such as spousal abuse or flagrant infidelity. In those situations, the spouse who was tired of the other's behavior could...
An attorney can help you decide if divorce is right for you
It is natural and normal to turn to other people for advice when you find yourself considering making big changes. However, not everyone is equally equipped to offer valuable guidance to those in need of advice. Many people will turn to their friends or family members...
Can children choose their own custody situation?
After nearly two decades of marriage, your spouse asks for a divorce. You have a child together, a 14-year-old boy. You both want custody, and you're both very involved in your son's life. However, you have heard that children can essentially do whatever they want at...
If you’re considering divorce, you should talk with a lawyer
When divorce becomes a potential part of your future, you may struggle to decide what is best for you and your family. Whether you and your spouse simply don't get along anymore or there has been some kind of dramatic break in the trust between you, possibly related...
Don’t fall for any common divorce myths
There are many myths that surround divorces in this country. Often, people don't realize that each state has its own laws regarding divorce, child custody and child support. This means that what worked for a friend in another state won't necessarily work for you....
At 14, your child can make their wishes known
When you first set up a custody schedule, you were thinking about your child's needs at that time. Your child might be young now, only 4 or 5, for example, and have few responsibilities for you to manage. As your child ages, they become more active and participate...
You have rights if your ex withholds your time with your kids
Feeling cut off from your children could be the worst experience for a loving parent. Unfortunately, that is exactly what happens to a number of parents during a divorce. Although it may violate the temporary custody order during a divorce or the permanent order...
You don’t need to assign fault in a California divorce
Divorce used to be much less common than it is today. One of the reasons fewer people got divorced was that you used to have to establish fault or grounds for a divorce. Essentially, one spouse would need to demonstrate to the courts that the other spouse violated the...
Mediation can work for those who struggle to settle their divorce
If you and your spouse have kids, own a home or share other assets, then it's likely that settling your divorce isn't going to go as smoothly as you may hope it would. If you and your ex are having trouble reaching a compromise, then mediation may be an ideal way for...